Okay as always this is just my view point so take it or leave it. It's mine and you don't have to share, but I don't comprehend ones that don't understand this one. Reading about, knowing of cases where the Abuser wound up raising the child. Based off nothing but the fact that they are a female. I do believe Mothers should be with there children, but not at the price of there child. I'm in favor of whatever is best for a child's well being.That being said Abusers have ways to hide there true nature for awhile. Please make no mistake there nature does come out within time. All the lying playing around for the sake of greed gets unfolded and like a book. Ones can always choose to close it and return it for another copy that hasn't been tarnished by the stain of Vindictive thoughts.
Still racking my brain on this one myself. Why would a Government let a child be in a known potential harmful living situation? Why would that same Government choose to allow a person to play games with others lives, only to hide behind the law? By law I mean postponing and coming up with fake evidence that has been proven to be fake. This being said I can only ask Why? It's a legal move to hold off the truth as long as can be. You prolong a case so long that the judge and everyone else gets tired of hearing the new Bullshit. If it's in the public's eye, you go to the press with your fake evidence in hopes of pulls the public sympathy card. As a way to make the judge appear to be truly evil if they find that person in the wrong. Even with proof of such, real evidences of the wrong doings.
I'm am one of those that feel a child should get the chance to live with both parents. Not every child is born into a situation of that nature. There's a lot to take in, if you brake up of stay together.
1st=Braking Up
Why would you think everything would stay the same? How could it?
When you have a child to think of, don't be selfish and think of your child. What is best for your child might not come as what you think you desire at that time. Don't force someone to be with you under the name of a child. It won't end well and the person you are trying to force will grow to hate you. That is if they haven't grown to hate you by this point. Be smart about it, you need to have the help from so many now. Both the Mother and the Father need support now that there's a baby in the making. So don't become to greedy and ask for what clearly never was meant to be yours. Be happy you have such a gift, a life that in its self you should be proud of having.
2nd=Staying Together
This one I know from watching others around me. So that being said I do know a bit of what I'm speaking about. When you stay together for the sake of the kids, the kids are the ones that hurt. They hear the fights, they see the way you look and act to each other. Children are not stupid but any means. They catch on to your emotions and will act out as well. If what they see at home isn't the best, there school will see it as well. If you speak in a bad way around a child that is still learning to speak. That child you might find their first words to be that of, less desirable.
There's not one right way of anything to me. Only because what's right for one can be wrong to another. So I Learned about a Man I hold in high Respect, that he's wanting his child. I truthfully couldn't be happier at that news. Given what I know about the Mother and the family of hers. And then what I know about his family and him, I know the child would be best living with the child's Father. I said all the above because I didn't want to outright say: She's a bad person (when I do feel that way). I wanted to voice my thoughts and how I am on the child's side.
Children are truly amazing creatures. They being with them so much joy. They have every right to be protected from anything, anyone who wishes to harm them. By emotional, physical, greed, or just using them tell they get what they want from them. And push them off to someone else because they're done pertaining to care for the child. Children deserve more respect then to be played around with there lives.
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